A woman will never be like a man, and why should she be? A man can never be like her. He can never give birth to babies, and that thirst to give birth makes him cover up and do all for the woman to make her raise the baby. A woman can raise the baby on her own, but a man would go all out to make that possible.
The more women talk and argue with men about cheating, the less value they place on themselves collectively and individually. We live in an era where there is no more shame. A woman’s nudity is no longer novel. Women now compare themselves with men for vices and not for good works.
Women now want to be like men in every way. Whatever privileges are given to men, the woman wants to enjoy the same, they even question why they should be submissive to the man they are “equal to”. So many strange things happening in our communities.
In all of these, the women are the victims of their folly by their boldness, shameless propositions and stubborn arguments they discourage the men from marriage and make themselves sex objects only or frolicking companions. No wonder so many women are growing old without finding a husband to marry. More and more young women are turning into and living off prostitution, this is a shame and a compromise for future generations.
The man lost little, and the woman lost everything. When old age comes, regrets set in, and depression becomes the illness. Let those who have ears, let them hear and those who want to be ignorant, be ignorant.
Take note! Men are different from women, they are not the same, not wired the same way physically and spiritually.
A man can marry more than one wife and love them generously, not equally because it is not required for the man to love his wives equally. No woman can be under two heads. For she will dislike one and like the other; she will be devoted to one and despise the other.
The discretionary nature of a woman can lead to quite a stressful existence if she decides to focus on this aspect of equality or wants to be like a man. A man takes huge risks to keep the food coming in and more. He is more carefree and risk-taking than a woman.
A woman cannot take some of those risks, like with relationships that a man can, since she will end up with more babies than she can handle. This makes her character more discretionary, as she has to weigh each opportunity (man) practically, and since some of her decisions are once in a lifetime she is more investigative than a man and never overlooks even a single signal. This also often is quite a stressful existence, if she decides to focus on this aspect.
The (risk) procreational space is also used by a woman to tempt a man, and that sets up the creation cycle.
Why does a woman want to be like and do all the stuff that a man does? Why does she need to? What does she have to prove? There is nothing to prove here. She has her own wonderful space in this world, and nothing can take it away.
Though her physical space is sometimes violated by men, that is also a procreational space, created by God or Evolution (whatever you call it).
This is not meant to say that space violation is right, and it carries its penal effects. However, the penal effects do not change the impact it leaves on the woman. That (risk) procreational space is also used by a woman to tempt a man, and that sets up the creation cycle.
Should we bind the lion and the deer to their own spaces? Let us take up the case of a Lion and a Deer (not a very good example maybe, so pardon Bonano for this). If we protect a deer from a lion, we would either have to impose conditions on a lion, like binding him to a space or binding the deer to a space.
We can also ask the deer to stay put and get grass, whereas ask the lion to adapt to vegetables. It just does not work, since the lion’s clock works automatically and it cannot control the desire to hunt, and asking a deer to stay away tampers with its freedom.
Even if the deer had a warning system (from a GPS-based device strapped to the lion), where they could start running, means the deer would end up more tense and exhausted, since not every time a lion moves, it is supposed to hunt.
So there would be too many alarms going off, disturbing the deer and creating a mess in its mental space. Bonano hope his silly example looks relevant to you.
That space of hers needs protection, but beyond a point, discretion is the sole protection, and this truth sometimes hurts her. She wants her physical space to be safe as well, but that is not how evolution was designed. She was designed to be physically lesser and mentally more, and her attempts to change that space are as vain as a man’s attempt at effemination of his world. Would a woman like a man to be like her? No! Then why should she be like a man?
She wants her physical space to be safe, but that is not how evolution was designed. In the end, every family needs a risk taker and a risk avoider to balance their ideas. Let us not keep tampering with this basic idea, since the fabric of the human world is interwoven with these threads. It is the base of our existence. Love and enjoy the world as it was meant to be.
A deer’s freedom has never been less than a lion’s. We have to enjoy this world and the risks that come with it. A deer would have to protect its own space, and its freedom remains no less than a lion.
Our challenge will always remain to handle the procreational space (within the spaces we create) rather than eliminate it. There are of course spaces where there must be no difference between a man and a woman, and these spaces must have all wherewithal to achieve this. In that space, gender is not important.
However, the procreational space is all-encompassing and it cannot be taken away from the human-created spaces like occupation and stuff. So, our challenge will always remain to handle that space rather than eliminate it.
A woman cannot be submissive to two husbands. So, women, stop this misguided attitude because of the wrong education you have received and humble yourselves unto the calling whereunto you have been appointed. To help the man, your husband, and not to compete with him. Be fruitful and glorify your creator.
